NOTE FOR MARRIED MEN 1. Love your wife no matter what 2. Once in a month date her outside the house as if she's your new cathed girlfriend 3. Once in a month surprise her with a gift. No matter how cheap,she appreciates it(eg suya,necklace etc) 4. Once in a month wake her up in the middle of the night to appreciate her and tell her how fortunate you are to have her (You can even wake her to tell her you just want to say "I LOVE YOU",this will never go off her mind easily) 5. Atleast once in a week especially during weekend,help her prepare meal,be with her as she cook,she appreciates your presence more than anything 6. Frequent love text message to her phone makes her go "ga ga" 7. Every year,renew your marriage vow with her in the bedroom,your children can be present and you hold a family feast. She doesnt forget it and will always pray that day comes again next year. 8. Always talk about your wife when you are in the midst of friends especially the female ones,so they know you care and love her,to avoid un- necessary show off by them which can attract your attention 9. Buy her attractive bedroom wears,which you know will always arouse your feelings when she puts it on 10. Try to bathe with her Frequently 11. Daily family prayer or bedroom prayer both day and night is very important 12. Playing games with her maybe hide and seek,ludo,watchin movies especially love films etc is necessary as it increases the love 13. Taking the family out to an eatery isnt a sin atleast once in 3 months 14. Never tell your wife's fault to friends,rather call her to order and settle things in a loving manner 15. Drink responsibly. 16. See it as a taboo to beat your wife. Beating is never the best way to correct her 17. Try always to satisfy her sexual feelings because she deserves it 18. If you can cook,having a soup cooking competition is a nice game. 19. Once in a while u wake up early and prepare breakfast and bring to her on the bed before she wakes up. 20. Always be funny,so she misses you the more whenever you are not with her.